When Your Friend Becomes a Boyfriend

Feeling lucky or "unlucky" to have friends who become your boyfriend? Had a boyfriend who had been a friend, does have advantages and disadvantages. Here are some advantages and disadvantages to consider.

Advantage
Understand
Conditions that have known each other makes you know much about him, and vice versa. On the way, you both can understand each other a lot.

Very familiar
As a friend, much less has been running for so long, you often share yourself with him. You also feel he knew, whether the character, temperament, personality, habits, principles, and much more about yourself. This side can be a benchmark that is easier to build trust in your boyfriend.

Comfortable
Friendship is a source of comfort between two beings. This is achieved by both of you have been honest and open with each other in the face of problems. It would be better if this continues when the marriage.

Strong bond
Excess of friendship, interwoven bond strength is greater. This bond is the result of long process you and your boyfriend know each other. If you are both able to continue to keep it, it will become its own power when faced with the problem.

Live with it
As a friend you often can not hide anything. Open and flexible attitude shown, make you taken for granted. Having a boyfriend best friend helps you to feel free to express without having too much manipulation.

Multi function
Having "friend-becomes-boyfriend", like having brothers, sisters, teachers, friends, and many other roles. Your mood depends in the mood to be pampered, advised, or note.

Disadvantage
Bored
You may have been long associated with your boyfriend as a friend. Then after a couple, you feel has been a long time to deal with every day. Boredom is a natural thing you experience, you feel you've given him enough to explore.

Lost passion
As a result of feeling has been with your boyfriend is too long, you feel lost the challenge. Missing the challenge of making you less excited with him.

Overcome boredom with three important things. More digging on him, looking for variations, and the nostalgia back. Digging about your boyfriend can be done by trying some distance and then consider what you may not know before. Start with small things.

Then try a few variations that has not been done together the couple. Try a picnic at the zoo or go up the mountain together, could be an alternative to make a bit of variation. Make sure your boyfriend agreed 'the plan both of you.

Then, there's nothing wrong with planning to go to places where memories of the past. Go to the park or a restaurant full of memories to evoke the romance for both of you.